In life, we often measure success by material wealth, comfort, and worldly achievements. Many believe that as long as they have money, a loving family, and good health, they are truly fortunate. But is that all there is to success? Is there something deeper that we might be losing without even realizing it?
The great Islamic scholar Al-Hasan Al-Basri (may Allah have mercy on him) once encountered a man who challenged this very idea. Their conversation carries a lesson that remains as relevant today as it was centuries ago.
A Man’s Question: “What Has Allah Withheld From Me?”
One day, a man approached Al-Hasan Al-Basri and said:
“I heard that you say when a person commits sins, Allah takes away goodness from their life. But I sin often—repeatedly—and yet, I don’t see anything missing in my life. I have a beautiful wife, good children, and plenty of wealth. So, what exactly has Allah withheld from me?”
The man’s question reflected a common misconception—that the effects of sin are always material. He assumed that as long as his wealth and family were intact, he had not lost anything of value.
The Scholar’s Response: What Is True Loss?
Al-Hasan Al-Basri responded with a question of his own:
“Do you wake up for the night prayer? Do you enjoy your prayers? Do you find peace in your supplications?”
The man remained silent. That was when the scholar gave him an eye-opening reminder:
“The greatest loss is not in wealth, health, or family. The greatest loss is when a person’s connection with the Almighty is cut off. Even if you own everything in this world, it means nothing if you no longer feel the presence of God in your life.”
His words remind us that success is not just about material comfort—it is about spiritual fulfillment. What value is there in worldly gain if the heart feels empty? What good is prosperity if our soul is deprived of inner peace?
The Hidden Effects of Sin on the Heart and Soul
The great companion Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) described how sin subtly affects a person, often without them realizing it. He said that sin:
Darkens a person’s face – Not in terms of skin color, but in the sense of a visible gloom or a loss of light and serenity. A person who frequently sins often carries a burden on their face, making them appear troubled, even if they smile.
Weakens the heart and thoughts – Sin clouds the mind and dulls spiritual sensitivity. It becomes harder to think clearly, make good decisions, and understand what is right.
Decreases physical strength – Not necessarily in terms of muscle, but in terms of motivation and energy. A sinful life makes a person feel drained, lazy, and unmotivated for acts of goodness.
Reduces one’s provision (rizq) – This does not only mean money but also spiritual blessings. A person may have wealth but feel no satisfaction, or they may find their work unfruitful and full of obstacles.
Causes people to feel distant from them – The warmth of relationships fades. Even if people do not know about the person’s sins, they may unconsciously feel discomfort or coldness toward them.
These effects do not always appear immediately. Sometimes, people continue enjoying worldly pleasures while their heart slowly grows numb to faith and their connection with God weakens. This is why Al-Hasan Al-Basri described it as the greatest loss—because it happens so quietly that people do not always recognize it until it is too late.
How to Reverse the Damage and Find True Success
This lesson is not meant to discourage anyone. Instead, it is a wake-up call—a reminder that as long as we are alive, we have the opportunity to turn back, correct our mistakes, and rebuild our connection with Allah.
1. Reflect on Your Connection with God
Ask yourself: When was the last time I truly felt the presence of God in my life? Do I still find peace in prayer? Do I feel close to my Creator? If the answer is no, then it is time to make a change.
2. Turn Back to Allah with Sincerity
The door of repentance is always open. No matter how much a person has sinned, Allah’s mercy is greater. The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
"Indeed, Allah’s mercy prevails over His wrath." (Sahih Muslim)
Returning to God does not require grand gestures—just sincerity. A simple, heartfelt prayer asking for forgiveness can be the first step toward regaining that lost connection.
3. Prioritize Acts of Worship
Even if it feels difficult at first, making an effort to pray, read Quran, and engage in good deeds helps soften the heart. The more a person engages in worship, the more they begin to feel its effects again.
4. Seek Good Company
The people we surround ourselves with have a great influence on our hearts. Spending time with those who remind us of God and encourage us to do good can help us stay on the right path.
5. Remember: True Success Is in Closeness to Allah
Worldly achievements come and go. Wealth, beauty, and status are temporary. But the peace and contentment that come from being close to Allah are lasting. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) taught:
"True richness is not having many possessions, but true richness is the richness of the soul." (Sahih al-Bukhari)
A person who feels spiritually fulfilled is truly successful, regardless of their financial situation.
A Final Thought: Reconnecting Before It’s Too Late
If you ever feel distant from God, or if prayers have become a burden instead of a joy, take this as a sign—it is time to return. The beauty of faith is that no matter how far we have strayed, Allah is always ready to welcome us back.
May we all be guided toward true success, which lies not in worldly possessions but in the nearness to our Creator. And may we always remember that the greatest loss is not the loss of wealth or status—but the loss of a heart connected to God.
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